On
Thursday I had the surgery to remove the polyp.
Barring almost getting sent for a mammogram, (Patient mix-up) everything
went well. While getting checked in, the
nurse informed me that I needed to take a pregnancy test. They failed to let me know beforehand, I had
just peed, so I tried to say I didn’t need one.
I said “there was no way I was pregnant because I hadn’t had sex with a
man in over 5 years.” She then said “I’m
Sorry.” As if to say I hadn’t been in a relationship for that long. I then went on to explain that the person
next to me was my WIFE, and this surgery was part of the journey in order to
get pregnant. She then went to her
higher up person to ask, the answer was I still had to pee in a cup. I told them they would have to wait until I
had to pee again. It wasn’t a huge
surprise, my first BFN. At least it wasn’t the full TWW before that test.
There
were many stages to the day; mostly from one nursing station to the next. Once I got escorted to the surgery ward we
got to meet the anesthesiologist, the intern and talk with my surgeon. I walked right into the operating theatre
suite. Once I was situated on the table,
the surgeon went over what he was going to do to me; which was a good thing
seeing the mammogram mix up almost happened, this gave me the extra piece of
mind that he was doing the right surgery.
Shortly after that, I was out via IV sedation. I do remember waking up during surgery and
saying, “That is a bit painful”. They
must have given more sedation, as that was all I remember.
Post
surgery, the hand written note from my doctor was “The polyp was removed. J”. While in the one hour wait post waking up the
nurse was talking about pain management.
She was saying I could take, to Advil, then in two hours I could take
two Tylenol, then after the next two hours I could take Advil again, and repeat
that rotation. That was in fair shock,
as I didn’t think there would be that much pain that required that much
management. All in all I took one Advil
when I got home to help with the cramps, and that was it. There was some discomfort, but I didn’t want
to over medicate so I could monitor if things were getting better or
worse. The cramps followed for a couple
days afterwards, minimally. But at least
the oven is clean to put a bun in it to start baking.
I
need to go for a follow up appointment in four weeks. Then we will begin the wait for my first
cycle that we will be able to inseminate, which looks like the end of January
due to the clinic closure for Christmas.
My
wife pampered me all day and night. It
was a great “Sherpa”
training day. I came across that term
reading the linked blog. I liked it and
so did Deb, so we have agreed to use that term Sherpa to the Non Bio Mom when
one of us is pregnant. I’m lucky to have
such a wonderful wife.
This is a picture of me being wheeled out to the car by my Sherpa.
This is a picture of me being wheeled out to the car by my Sherpa.
Glad to hear the surgery went well and that you're not in too much pain. Good luck in January!!
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